Recipe #4: Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

I saw this quote on a friend's page and it really made me rememebr what my bf said to me a long time ago: "you're not perfect, but you're perfect for me." I came to realize how right he was after i grew to love my self more as i grew older. and i put to words how i feel about my bf, how I've always felt about him, about us. that we aren't perfect ppl. we do things that annoy each other, piss each other off and all that stuff, but at the end of the day, it's the imperfect things that make us who we are. they make us human. and we love each other for that, for all that we are, the good and the bad. all this talk about finding someone to complete you, and fill a void is BS. you need to love yourself completely without void first. only then will you be with someone that will really love you. only then will it all make sense. because if you don't love yourself, if you are always looking for someone to fill that void for you, it will never be filled and you will always be looking.