Recipe # 8: Cheating on your partner or cheating on yourself?

This one is gona be short. When you cheat on someone that you love, in essence, you are cheating on yourself. You cheat yourself out of would have been a good relationship. And in the end, you end hurting yourself as well as the person you are with. My bf made a good point with this in a discussion we were having the other day about infidelity. He said that should a person think about cheating on their partner, they should really put it into perspective for themself that in essence they are cheating on themself. They are actually robbing themself of the chances of continuing a good relationship with the person they are already with by stepping out on them. And in the end, end up alone because once the ish hits the fan that you've been unfaithful, chances are that there will be no chance or reconcilitation, especically if one has cheated before. so before thinking of cheating, regardless of what the situation may be with you and your current partner, remember: you are not only hurting your partner, but yourself. Just a thought.